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This was a good video… I went to school with the guy wit the glasses and I’ve known the other guy in the sweatshirt for years…. I’m honestly not surprised by their answers at all. It is what it is
I loved what the white guy had to say though.
What do y’all think?
Not gonna lie, when I was watching the video I wanted to stare at the white dude the whole time. His beard makes him even more gorgeous.
black guys are so conditioned to believe that straight hair is the only good hair. they have no idea they are bashing their own roots. being black and having “coiled hair” is a wonderful thing. and if a BLACK GUY can’t see that, it’s not a representation of you, but of them. this honestly is heart breaking and sooo frustrating to constantly hear black men bash their beautiful queens for daring to stand against the mainstream idea of beauty and embracing THEIR NATURAL culture. it’s sad to me. what’s happens when they have daughters, what will they teach them about what beauty is?, it’s sad and it’s really destroys me to hear them not only say these things but see nothing wrong with it. I love my natural hair, and I DARE someone to voice an opinion about them not liking it. unlike them I love being black, and I love being connected to me blackness. I won’t change who I am, and reconstruct myself based on the popular idea of society.
ps. I love the white guy.
This video fucking hurts. It hurts. It made me cry. It’s like they don’t realize their amount of stupidity. This confirms whatever I do I will never be good enough for a black male. Especially one around my age. Fuck those dudes in the video. Fuck them.
Do not allow these two, or any male to affect you like this because there is a LOT of guys who love and appreciate natural hair. What you do to/for yourself should be for YOU, but I understand it makes you feel good to hear them say it too..
But do not cut them all out because of some ignorant ones.
It’s so interesting how the white guy is open to the idea of coily hair even though it’s something he’s not accustomed to but the black guys are just like “nah” not even giving it a chance. Just b/c her hair is coily doesn’t mean it’ll break a comb. Also another point you don’t want her to relax her hair but you also don’t want her to have coily hair. Everyone has their preference but it doesn’t mean that’s all you have to go for. My bf is the complete opposite of everything I would go for and honestly if I was close minded about our situation I would’ve made a huge mistake. Sorry to write an essay but I wish more men accepted our hair more. How many women wear weaves or relax their hair b/c they’re afraid they won’t be able to find someone?
*end rant* Good interview
He was upset that his mom didn’t tell his brothers that their hair is bad…
And how they hate weave, hate perms but then hate naturals that aren’t pretty much straight…
and why is the premise for most of their choices needing to approve or “know x beforehand”…
And Nolan or whatever was nappy himself but it’s not okay if it’s a girl…
What I read from this was the two black guys don’t generally like black women.
They actually do.
If they hate women wearing weave, hate women relaxing and stay within the straight to wavy spectrum, then the black women they date would have to pass a lot of checkpoints. Like obviously there are black women with straight or almost straight hair, but coily hair or relaxing or weave is common,so if they’re trying to eliminate anyone without natural hair but that natural hair must be less afro-textured, I would think that when they see other black women failing to meet those requirements they wouldn’t be attracted since hair was apparently a deal breaker…they want a black barbie.
They have/do date black women with relaxers and weaves. This video they were speaking on preferences and opinions. I dont prefer fat or light skinned men. Im attracted to darker skin and certain body builds. That doesn’t mean I wouldnt/dont date or at least find a light skinned or fat man attractive
loved the white guy & thats all i have to say, lol.
This just made me mad but props to the white guy.
I couldn’t finish this shit. How come the white guy is so much more understanding and open to black hair than the niggas with black hair. man or woman, you STILL have black hair.